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Sarah_anon · 32 · Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

Female · 2 Jun 2025, 9:14 AM

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My husband keeps dismissing my feelings — I feel completely unheard in our marriage

Whenever I try to bring up issues in our marriage, my husband shuts down or changes the subject. I've tried different times, different approaches, but nothing works. We've been married for 6 years and it was never like this before. I feel invisible and I don't know what to do anymore. Has anyone been through this and found a way out?

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Dr_KwanMY Advisor 48 · Kuala Lumpur Marriage · Communication

This is a very common pattern called “emotional stonewalling” and it typically stems...

2 Jun 2025, 9:19 AM

JamieM_MY 35 · Selangor Marriage · Communication

I went through the exact same situation for almost 2 years. What helped me...

2 Jun 2025, 9:32 AM

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